Igor, I’m not certain I understand what you’re saying. However, I’ll attempt to answer whatever it is you had issues with in my post…
Having been married for almost 5 years (after having dated for three years previously), my wife and I know that our relationship advice for men and marriage is something we continue to work on all the time. A marriage or relationship is NOT a means to an end. It’s a constant process, experience, appreciation, revelation, love, and a great many more things too numerous to describe, and it needs to be worked on all of the time. People grow and if you don’t grow with your wife, husband, partner, etc., and continue to understand and appreciate one another, the marriage will end up in failure.